How Your Toxic Mindset is Making You Suffer in Your Dating Life

How Your Toxic Mindset is Making You Suffer in Your Dating Life

By Dan Aguilera

We’ve all seen the tyrannical rants of the angry “Red Pill’ gurus on YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok.

The intense, profanity-ridden assertions that ALL women today are selfish, manipulative, and incapable of love or commitment.

And, most predominantly, that they are hypergamists and will only stay with you long enough to feel good about themselves until they find the next best guy whose taller, richer, better in bed, etc.

Then we can’t forget about the female influencers (representing angry feminists) who preach that men are liars, cheaters, and biologically incapable of commitment.

With this in mind, we as humans have 2 options:

1.    1. Generalize negative characteristics of the opposite sex based on our personal experiences

2.    2. Take a critical look at the type of people we are attracting and what that says about us, and particularly, our MINDSET.

For most, the first option sounds easier, but here’s the point:  This toxic, generalization limits how we view our dating prospects.

If we as men buy into the belief that no GOOD women exist anymore and that it’s completely out of our hands, we become victimized and disempowered.

And the more hateful content you consume habitually, the more the algorithm feeds it to you.  It’s a spinning cycle into a dark pit of despair.  Believe me, I've been there.

But gentlemen, you can BREAK FREE! 

My coaching program provides personalized guidance from yours truly to help you challenge these limiting beliefs and take back control of your dating life. 

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